Cheating Spouse – The Classic Reason for Hiring a Private Detective
At www.privatedetective.co.uk we have a regular roster of clients who are experiencing the unpleasant sensation of finding that they have doubts about their partner or spouse.
Should you suspect your cheating partner?
One of the main problems we discover when talking to our clients about their suspicions is that the very partner they have doubts about has convinced them that they are crazy, or neurotic or that their own behaviour, weight, habits or personality is the reason that the partner’s behaviour has changed.
Because we have four decades of experience with cheating spouses and unfaithful partners, we know how to break down this conditioning that causes an individual to suppress their genuine concerns because this, above all, is often the sign that a cheating spouse is seeking to get away with infidelity.
The signs of a cheating spouse
Over and above the manipulation that a cheating spouse uses to make it difficult for their partner to express their concerns, there are a set of indicators that lead any private detective to agree that an unfaithful partner is probably playing around. If you’ve seen more than two of these signs, it’s time to contact us and get some indisputable facts about your cheating spouse or partner:
- Changes in your way of life
If you’ve been in a relationship for a while, and you and your partner have had a harmonious routine that’s worked well, you’ll notice if he or she starts cheating behaviours such as – getting up earlier, coming home later, going out much more often with his or her friends (and refusing to let you meet or speak to exactly those friends, whom you used to see regularly). If money seems tighter than usual and if he or she snaps without warning and says you’re nagging, being annoying or ‘crazy’.
- Changes in the nature of your relationship
These are more subtle signs and its because we have so many years of experience that we can help you start to identify if the cheating spouse and unfaithful partner has started to cut you out of their life. Early warning signals of this tendency are: you won’t be invited to visit his or her workplace, you will be told that those evenings you used to spend with mutual friends are ‘boring’ and they don’t want to go to them any more. Your partner might say your cooking doesn’t suit them and just pick at their food … that’s because they are eating with somebody else before they get home!
- Changes at work
This is one of the potential fears that a private detective can swiftly and simply allay. We have covert surveillance techniques that help us rapidly discover whether your spouse’s work routine really has changed, or whether they are spinning you a line with those ‘weekend orientations’, ‘business trips’ or ‘new boss says unpaid overtime is mandatory’. Sometimes it really is the case that work has changed and your potentially cheating spouse is actually doing exactly what they claim, and we can establish that very quickly, so you can be certain about the facts.
- New friends need your cheater
This is a reliable sign. He or she joins a gym or a club or a society and then has a new friend who is moving house or breaking up or building a boat and needs your partner to go and help. Or he or she starts training for some event that requires them to be out of the house for hours every week. And they always take a shower before they come home because their swimming or running or whatever requires it.
How private detectives trap a cheating spouse
We use an array of techniques to establish very rapidly, and completely discreetly, whether your partner is unfaithful. They include financial investigations, covert surveillance, and checking for secret communications systems. And once we have the facts, we ensure we have incontrovertible evidence so that you have everything you need to get the best outcome from such a painful situation.
Contact us today for a free, confidential initial consultation to find o ut how we can help you: